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01 Apr

Matt Overstreet: Tarnished Youth Minister


Guys like this are always labeled "former" youth ministers by the press. Of course, they are former -NOW. But, they were quite active in their ministerial duties at the time they committed their crimes. The following "former" youth minister is no exception:

OverstreetMatthew Jonas Overstreet has been accused of sexually assaulting a 15-year-old girl. Overstreet allegedly began contacting the girl after she left St. Andrew United Methodist Church in Plano, Texas, where Overstreet worked as a youth group intern. Overstreet sent her explicit text messages over a period of years -beginning when she was only 12 or 13 years old. He sent her "sexual remarks" on Facebook. Then finally, his alleged deviant behavior escalated. The girl told police that Overstreet came to her house in the middle of the night (3:00AM) and sexually assaulted her on December 19.

Overstreet worked at several North Texas churches as a youth minister for the United Methodist Church. Most recently. Overstreet worked as Youth Director at Spring Valley United Methodist Church in Dallas, Texas. But, after praying with the pastor about the accusations against him, Overstreet was quickly given the boot. Overstreet also had his candidacy terminated at Southern Methodist University's Perkins School of Theology. It seems they don't want to ordain pastors that might rape their youth – a good policy more churches should adapt. Police are asking other victims (if any) to come forward, as Overstreet worked with teenagers at three different churches (Garland, Plano, Dallas). Overstreet was the Youth Ministry Director at Cornerstone United Methodist Church in Garland, Texas, according to a 2007 web page cache.

Jim Overstreet, Matt's father, claims his family was "shocked" at the allegations. He said that everyone who needed to know about the case had already been informed. (Shhhh!) Matt's father told the Dallas Morning News, "I don't want his name tarnished." That's an issue Mr. Overstreet should probably take up with his son. Churches can certainly have their private matters, but if someone in that congregation might be a danger to others –everyone needs to know.

From his ZoomInfo profile:

Matt Overstreet grew up attending worship at Custer Road UMC in Plano. He graduated from Plano Senior High School, where he was a member of the National Honor Society and served as the President of their Fellowship of Christian Athletes Chapter. Matt also served two summers as a counselor at Kanakuk Kamps.

Matt received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Psychology (with minors in Religion and Communication) at Texas Christian University. He is currently in his third year of Masters of Divinity Degree Program at Perkins School of Theology (SMU).

Matt has a lot of solid experience working with youth. He considers youth ministry his passion! He served as the Middle School Youth Minister at St. Andrew UMC in Plano, and most recently he served for over two years as the Youth Director at Cornerstone UMC in Garland.

Matt hopes to help youth connect with God in their own lives. To that end, he pledges to work to deepen youth's relationships with God and others. Matt envisions a youth group whose members become empowered spiritual leaders who take their faith beyond the church walls. He is "fired up" that he has the opportunity to walk alongside the community of faith at Spring Valley! Here's his invitation: "Let's grow spiritually, and love God and youth, together!"

Matthew Jonas Overstreet  was arrested on March 5. He is now free on a $15,000 bond. I'm sure most of those I hear from regarding this case will feel sorry for Matt and blame the child. (And yes, I understand these are only allegations at this point, so don't wear out your keyboard reminding me) Or, I'll hear from people who don't seem to understand the definitions of the law and where the responsibility lies. Remember, Matt was the adult in the situation. He was the authority figure. This denial and transfer of blame has been typical behavior in these situations. I think that this treating of church leaders as "holier than thou" is what helps turn so many clerical leaders into sex offenders. These leaders and ministers are often looked up to with so much "reverence" that it becomes impossible for their followers to see them do any wrong. That's what makes these crimes so disturbing. Many times, you see a group of worshipers move quickly to "forgive" and cover-up the crime, while vilifying the victims –all the while urging everyone to pray. Prayer is fine. But, pragmatic action and awareness go a long way to protecting other members from future abuse. I commend those who have taken action in this case to protect their flock. I hope others (and there will be others) follow this example, too.

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  3. Doug Pope: Youth Minister, Etc.
  4. Damian Blake Burkhalter – Youth Minister, Pedophile (Allegedly!)
  5. Barry Caudle, Youth Minister/Child Predator

  • my friend or not my friend?

    ok so i've known this kid since he was six and im stunned by all this……..but if it's true, which i hope it isnt……..i hope he goes to a bad prison.

  • shampooshoes

    I understand Matt did something wrong and undoubtedly he should be punished. That's only justice. But know that Matt isn't a bad person. He isn't a rapist. He isn't a child predator or a sexual predator or anything of the sort. Matt is easily the most influential person in my life and i know for a fact many other teens' lives. He has influenced hundreds of teens over the years to positively improve their lives and I pray earnestly that continues. I am saddened by knowing that in reality that will not happen but my prayers will not cease. You read and hear that people who really know Matt were “shocked”. That's because Matt is the most charismatic, loving, and caring person many have ever met. I just hope that someday Matt will be able to share the Word of God and spread his love to youth again.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    If you read the above post, you'll see where it is written that I'd “hear from people who don't seem to understand the definitions of the law and where the responsibility lies.” Your post is a perfect example of just that. Matt was a bad person. Not a rapist? What do you think “sexual assault” means? He is an adult who used his influence to undermine a young girl in her vulnerable years. That sounds rather predatory to me. I hope Matt never spreads his love to youth ever again. He's done enough of that already.

  • ChaseC2010

    Matt Overstreet is by far one of the most amazing people you can ever meet. F*** all of you guys who want to take what actually happened and turn it around on him. He WAS NOT the only person involved in this, the girl is just as much to blame as Matt. But either way, IF you read this Matt, We all still love you dude.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    Oh, we're all amazed with Matt Overstreet. No one is turning anything around on him. I'm telling you just how it is, Chase. The girl is a child. Matt is an adult. He broke the law. When you grow out of your teen angst and have children, maybe then you will see things differently.

    As is usually the case when these youth leaders rape girls, and just as I have indicated in this very post, “most of those I hear from regarding this case will feel sorry for Matt and blame the child.”You did just that, Chase. Thank you for helping me prove my point. Your response is typical of the faithful acquaintances of exposed sex offenders –especially in a church setting.

  • ChaseC2010

    The girl is a child, and yes Matt is an Adult, but what I said is this girl is JUST AS MUCH TO BLAME as Matt is. He was not the only one sending messages. AND JUST FOR YOUR INFORMATION, I do have a daughter who is 2 years old. The media is constantly stating the bullshit instead of good and bad. They want to make it look like Matt is an all around bad guy. He is not a bad guy. If this allegation is true, he made a bad choice and I still wouldnt have different feelings towards Matt. But what happens if this IS JUST AN ALLEGATION, and Matt never actually did anything with this girl. His WHOLE LIFE FROM HERE OUT is ruined. He can not go back to youth ministries or even be ordained anymore. He will forever have this on his background record and no one will hire him. I remember a couple years ago when Matt was my youth director, he told ALL of us that if we ever needed anything, call him. He has been at my house plenty of times in the middle of the night because I needed a friend to be there. In my own personal opinion maybe what happened was ” Matt, I need someone here to help me. I just need a friend to talk to, can you come by? Sure, ill be there shortly. He gets there and is talking all her problems out and after that is all settled, he prays with her and leaves, and AS HE IS LEAVING her parents see him. Who was that guy??? HE BROKE IN AND SEXUALLY ASSAULTED ME!!!

    Guess what… That one little instant where this girl didnt want to get into trouble for having a guy in the house, she just fucked up his whole life.

    I dont know the whole story, NOR DOES ANYONE… Except Matt and this girl. Noone knows the truth except them. So until this turns out… we can not be the jurors.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    Not only are an ignorant sort when it comes to the law, but you have a wild imagination. If Matt's whole life is ruined, it could be because of the choice he made.

    I'll be more than happy to let the jury convict him –but I have every right to express my opinion until they do.

    Your hypothetical situation is moronic to say the least. No grown man goes to visit a minor at 3:00 AM in the morning without her parents' knowledge unless they have ulterior motives on their mind.

    You may have a child, but you still haven't grown up. I hope you do soon, for her sake.

  • Amber

    Matt was a jerk. He made lots of people miserable. He should have known better…it isn't like he wasn't educated. This is his KARMA and now he will pay.

  • anonymus

    i was a member at st andrew and my friend and I were in the youth group when Matt was a leader. This whole situation really shakes me because we were really good friends with him and he was my favorite youth leader. Wow..guess I really cant trust anyone can i..

  • A girl…

    I am not surprised at all by this “allegation”. I can totally see him doing something like!

  • Sadgirl

    I knew Matt in College. He continually sexually harassed me and a few other friends. I should have know and acted on my instinct that he would eventually turn harassment into assault. I was very sad to hear about the news regarding the alleged victim. I knew a few of his friends from his childhood as well, and even they did not trust him around their girlfriends or female friends. I truly regret never taking this to the church he interned at when I was living in Texas. I simply regret not doing anything, for the sake of this young girl. My heart broke hearing this news.

    Sexual offenders are amazing at masking themselves. They convince all around them that they are the best of the best. This is how they get parents, and child to trust them…it's an awful reality. Sadly, Matt had most of us fooled.

  • helovesthelord

    It is amazing of those who will be the ones to stand by their friends, the ones they know. I know him now and I have known him for about 3 years. I hope those who are quick to judge are never caught in a situation you need someone to stand by you. This is a classic situation of where a young man is in a relationship with a younger girl. It isn't like every other man, hasn't been with a younger girl. Half of you would be put to jail if someone came forward and reported you for having sex with their under age daughter. The papers like to add details and I know that Matt would never contact a twelve year old and even if the other information is true the part about sending sexuall text messages to a twelve year old is completely fabricated. He has made a positive difference in so many youth's lives. It is a real shame you all can't see the Matt I know. I don't know what these sad girls are talking about, sexually harassed, like what asked you out, or flirted with you. He comes from a very high moral family, always says yes mam and no mam and if you were to hear this man speak about the Lord, you would know what a Godly man he is. This allegedly happened in 2006, not recently. Everyone makes mistakes. I know you all know the story of Jesus, ya, the man who died on the cross for all of our sins, not just yours, but mine as well and his. I know sleeping with a minor is illegal, but so is drinking and driving, which kills many every year. Have you drank and drove, have you drank under age, have you had sex with a minor, when you were younger…. think about it before you throw the first stone. Don't believe everything you read in the paper. Don't believe everything you read in the news.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    There's nothing classic about having sex with underage girls. Despite your low opinion of the male sex, half of us are not statutory rapists and criminals. If the accusations are fabricated, it will come out in court. Let me know when that happens.

    Matt can speak about the Lord all he wants to. The “yes, ma'am, and no ma'am” may come in handy while he's in jail. Jesus did not die on the cross so Matt could have sex with kids. Jesus doesn't dole out the Justice in the State of Texas. Matt must answer to the Law. God can deal with him later.

    Drinking and driving has consequences, too. What century are you living in? I don't know about the people you're familiar with, but normal men don't have sex with minors. It amazes me how much the “morals and family values” crowd seem to have neither morals or values. Way to represent!

  • Amber

    I laugh as I read this. I went to school with Matt Overstreet for a long time. He may have come from a family with high morals and values, but he was mean to a lot of people in school. He was a bully. I cannot believe anyone could call him godly when he was a terror.

    helovesthelord – I have known Matt far longer than you…and he has more than one face I promise you. He may put out a pretty face for everyone else to see, but he is a monster inside.

  • Heather

    unless you know Matt, do not assume he is a bad person. I've known Matt for around 4 years now, and he is one of the most caring, strong, and influential person I've probably ever came across. And what the guy said about you calling him and him being there is true. On many accounts Matt's always been there for me. No one knows the whole story, there is no proof. So, don't believe what you hear. I am 15, a girl, and i've always felt comfortable around Matt. He has never tried anything on me, never given any sexual remarks, and he just isn't the type of guy the press is out there making him seem. So, unless you are Matt or the girl who supposedly said this all happened to, do not assume you know him. Because I guarantee you don't. And I know, you are probably going to say I'm young and have no idea what I'm saying. But I do. Matt is a great man, and like a second dad to me.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    It seems a lot of people that have known Matt can vouch that he's not as nice as some of you have been led to believe.

  • SadGirl

    Listen, it has nothing to do with being asked out…it was much more vulgar than that. And yes, the sexual harrassment began in Spring 2005. It finally ended when I told him to leave me alone, in 2009. Throughout all those years, Matt was still sending me sexually vulgar messages. Asking me to do lots of sexual things for him. It was NEVER him asking me out on a date, not that I would ever go on a date with him. I saw past his lies years ago. Loving God, and being a minister is all part of his facade…I'm sorry you can't see that now. But eventually when Matt does this again, beacuse he will, you'll remember this conversation and the way you defended a clearly guilty man.

  • helovesthelord

    If he sent you sexual text messages for 4 years and you never did anything about it? So you think he is getting his masters and attending a Christian University just so he can get his kicks off of tex messages? I don't think your story adds up. I think you might have egged him on there a little for him to continue for 4 years. I dont know what to tell you, I know he is a good man.. I havent' seen the other side.

  • helovesthelord

    Amber what is your definition of a monster?

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    I don't think YOUR story adds up. If you want to see Matt's other side, perhaps you should attend the court proceedings. Is Matt still in the program? I thought the University gave him the boot. Looks like he was just egging them on. It may have taken them four years, but they finally did something about it.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    Here are some definitions of the word “monster,” if you're looking for a good one:

    One who inspires repulsion or disgust.
    One who deviates from the normal behavior of character.
    A fiend. A miscreant.
    A cruel and inhuman person.

  • mydesilu2

    I am Heather's mother. I stand by what she posted. If Heather would like to post anything else, I will be more than happy to do it for her. I think what she wrote is a lot more mature than some of the things I have read on here. Maybe I missed the disclosure about the age requirement… can you tell me what you define as an adult?

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    It appears Matt and his friends have trouble defining what an adult is. Like I said, your daughter is more than welcome to post here when she is old enough to vote. Just like the laws we are discussing, her perceived maturity has nothing to do with it. Consider that my disclosure. As long as you abide by the terms, you are more than welcome to post in her stead.

  • nevermind1234

    What is up with you all and your negative comments or good comments none of you should be judging this case NONE of you are the girl or Matt so none of you know the actual story! But it all comes down to the fact that Matt was the adult in the situation he should have known better and said NO!! It's a simple word that he needed to learn how to use!

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    So…. only you can comment? Sorry! That's not the way it works.

  • nevermind1234

    I'm not saying only I can comment I'm not saying they cant have their own opinion but I want them to have open minds on the girls side of the story too! NOT JUST MATTS! A lot of people have a negative attitude towards the girl and not towards Matt i think thats wrong. When there both are to blame. But you also should give the girl some slack yes she didnt say anything for 3 years but at least she said something some time most people in that situation wouldnt have said anything…

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    It's OK… Both sides will be heard in court. The girl was a child. Matt was an adult. All of this will be taken into consideration. We can't make everyone see the victim's side of things. That is why we have crime in the first place. I am glad that you are trying to be fair. Thanks…

  • Amber

    He was cruel….the crimeshadows reply says it all. haha!

  • Amberq

    I don't blame the girl…I blame MATT! I agree 100%…he is the adult…or is supposed to be

  • jack

    I agree with some of your message, but he should NEVER counsel a child without the knowledge of her parents especially at 3am. Matt is not a bad person he just made a stupid mistake that will follow him forever.

  • jack

    How come the girls parents didn't notice a grown man in their home at 3am. Why didn't they check her cell phone usage and facebook activity. Haven't they heard of putting locks on their computers and cell phones.

    I agree Matt is the adult and should be punished if he committed the crime. The parents need to also attend a parenting class, on how to better protect their kids from predetors. They gave her to much freedom.

    The girl trusted her youth director and he took advantage of the situation, but her parents gave up on her when they stopped over seing her activities and gave her freedom to do what she wanted.

    Parenting never stops. Hopefully they learned their lesson.

  • kaplan200

    I agree that the girl should have been watched more closely. Kids are sneaky and while you have to keep your eyes open at all time…kids still manage to sneak things past you. With the world of media available nowadays all you can do is inform your children of the dangers, set rules, and pray they abide by them. With that in mind…that doesn't mean her parents weren't parenting. Kids do not always listen to what they are told and often feel they are a better judge at what is acceptable. You can only control so much…

  • Ejensen76

    I have known this family since this kid was in diapers and I can tell you that he is a good kid who obviously made a terrible mistake. He will be judged by the legal system and more importantly by God. Your negative comments mean very little in the grand scheme of things.

  • http://CrimeShadows.com crimeshadows

    Unfortunately, Matt is not the only person that must pay for his terrible “mistake.” In the “grand scheme of things,” making light of his crime helps no one. What Matt does with his future is up to him. But, what he has done will not be ignored or made light of.

  • Peace1011

    that comment that you readers have been leaving disgust me because you are baiscly siding with Matt, there shoud never ever be siding or favoring in any case like this. have you even cared to consider what the victim was going trough, the fear of going outside to see a man in her driveway at 3 A.M. personly thats what i call a stocker and a creeper. Matt was the adult in this situation and not to mention a Youth Minister who should have known when to say enough is enough

  • Doofy

    Jenna, you never thought of telling him to stop before 2009? This went on for years and you never told him to stop? You can't tell me that this isn't partly your fault.

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